{"id":20007,"date":"2021-03-05T13:00:45","date_gmt":"2021-03-05T13:00:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/unwomanly.com\/?p=20007"},"modified":"2021-03-05T13:00:45","modified_gmt":"2021-03-05T13:00:45","slug":"guy-says-i-hope-you-wither-away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/unwomanly.com\/guy-says-i-hope-you-wither-away\/","title":{"rendered":"Nice Guy Says ‘I Hope You Wither Away’ To A Girl With Eating Disorder"},"content":{"rendered":"

Some people act like children when they don’t get their way.<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Perhaps this is an insult to all children because they do not treat people as badly as nice guys do. What does this term even mean? Well, I think we all know guys in our lives who think they deserve something in return just because they are ‘nice’ to you. As if being a decent human being should mean a transaction in return. I have no idea what goes on in their mind because they change on a dime. Especially if they don’t get what they want.<\/p>\n

And pardon me for being blunt what they usually want is s*x and nothing else. Sure they might dress it up as them being interested in you as a person. Or that you are special or some other bull but what they want at the end of the day is ‘use you’ and then leave you with nothing. A least most people have become aware of this and so these nice guys are usually blocked when they employ their weird tactics.<\/p>\n

That is exactly what happened in the story below.<\/p>\n

Source: Reddit<\/a><\/p>\n

He starts with the age-old fake confusion as he didn’t even block her at all and that she was hallucinating or something.<\/h2>\n

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A person usually knows when you block them. There is no point in lying.<\/h2>\n

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I understand wanting to know how someone is doing but this is the worst way of asking that question.<\/h2>\n

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And he then goes on to compliment her body. Can this be anymore sleazy?<\/h2>\n

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If you have to explain then that means you are exactly like that.<\/h2>\n

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He says he doesn’t care about looks and yet he was raving about her workout picture a moment ago. Does he have amnesia all of a sudden?<\/h2>\n

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However, it isn’t long before he stoops to throwing insults her way just because she doesn’t want to talk to him.<\/h2>\n

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His ego clearly couldn’t take the hit so he had to backtrack.<\/h2>\n

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I am not even surprised by the responses anymore.<\/h2>\n

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Just asking how they are doing is better than whatever he did.<\/h2>\n

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He has no excuse for acting this way.<\/h2>\n

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I’m 13 years recovered from anorexia. If I had a quarter for every time I got the same type of response from a guy about my disorder – I could have melted them all down, made a cannon, and had a delightful time.<\/p>\n

Hindsight. –1dumho<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

I don’t think anyone would let him be a cop. At least I hope not.<\/h2>\n

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This comment is golden and I am disappointed that we didn’t get to see what would have happened if she did use this.<\/h2>\n

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I could just imagine him wearing a fedora.<\/h2>\n

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On a brighter note, at least she is getting help and actually getting better so more power to her.<\/h2>\n

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How would you have responded if someone acted towards you this way? Let us know your response in the comments below.