I never thought my doctor’s visit would turn into a debate about who gets front-row seats to my butt. But there I was, pants halfway down, being told a med student would be staying to “observe” my rectoscope exam. I froze. Call me old-fashioned, but I wasn’t exactly in the mood to turn my back door into a live teaching demo. What followed was awkward, uncomfortable, and ended with me being called an a**hole — in more ways than one.
The Situation I Never Signed Up For


The Moment Things Got Weird


Me: Not Today, Med School Barbie


But Then… She Confronted Me

Why I’m Torn


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In the end, I stood my ground. I didn’t let her stay, I didn’t let my dignity slide, and yes — maybe I cost her one “learning opportunity.” But it’s my body, my comfort, and my choice. Now I’m left wondering — was I being selfish for denying her a chance to learn, or was I just drawing a line where everyone should be allowed to draw one: at my literal b*tt?


