He sleeps next to her… and not me. Am I wrong for being uncomfortable?
I (27M) have been dating my girlfriend (20F) for a little over a year. She’s usually mature, independent, and composed — the kind of person who handles herself well in most situations. But right now, we’re on vacation with her parents, and something happened that’s made me deeply uncomfortable.
My train of thought is she’s 20, a fully grown adult. Past a certain age cuddles with your dad shouldn’t be such a public display of affection.
She’s typically mature, which is why I find her behavior around him unusual. Until now if I had to describe her, I would say she’s independent. However, when they’re together, she seems dependent. Her behavior is almost regressive. She’s not the mature adult I’m used to being around, but more like a child.
